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life just isn't .

Life isn't about keeping score. It's not about how
many people call you and it's not about who you've
dated, are dating or haven't dated at all. It isn't
about who you've kissed, or which
guy or girl likes you. It's not about your shoes or
your hair or the color of your skin or where you live
or go to school. It's not about grades,
money, clothes, or colleges that accept you or not.
Life isn't about if you have lots of friends, or if
you are alone, and it's not about how accepted or
unaccepted you are.

Life just isn't about that.


Life is about who you love and who you hurt. It's
about how you feel about yourself. It's about trust,
happiness and compassion. It's about sticking up for
your friends and replacing inner hate with love. Life
is about avoiding jealousy, overcoming ignorance and
building confidence. It's about what you say and what
you mean. It's about seeing people for who they are
and not what they have. It's about friendship, used as a sanctity or as a weapon.
It's about what you say and mean, maybe hurtful or heartening.
It's not about starting rumors and contributing to petty gossip.
It's about what judgments you pass and why and who your judgments are spread to.
It's not about who you've ignored with full control and intention.
It's not about jealousy, fear, ignorance, and revenge.

Most of all, life is about choosing to use your life to
touch someone else in a way that could never have been achieved otherwise.

The above piece is actually a re-post from another blog I had...but it's something that I read often and truly feel deep in my soul. I've had a lot of time to think and be with myself without outside interference and I came to a conclusion..I waste a lot of my energy on people who don't deserve it. I try so hard to make sure everyone is happy..comfortable..and 70% of the people I do all this for, give me their ass to kiss or show me no compassion or comfort in my time of need. Then I get these bogus ass excuses like"I thought you were cool" or "That's just my personality..sorry." Well,if you cared to ask, you would know I'm not "cool" and if your personality is that cold and unfeeling , perhaps you should limit your contact with other humans.




disclaimer: if you have to email/call/txt me and ask who or what this blog is about..it's probably about you.
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